Personal and Relationship Mentorship
“I’ve found Vika and her work to be both mind-bogglingly effective and heart-opening.
She’s always authentic about her own humanity, and her uncanny ability to reach out to people,
empathize with them, and connect deeply with them is unique in my experience.
The relationship coaching that she has done for me and my wife
has opened up a new world of connection for us that I never dreamed possible.
The individual coaching that she’s done for me has helped me to release shame and guilt,
and learn how to both maintain my boundaries and open up to other people more easily.”
— David L., PhD. Music historian, Author, & Energy Healer, Brazil
“I have the relationship with my dad that I’d always dreamed of!”
— CM, 7-figure author
“Thanks for all your support! I went to the doctor yesterday and my blood pressure was 110.
It’s usually up in the high 130s, and I’ll bet that that low blood pressure has to do with
being less distressed. Yay, and thanks!”
— Joe M., Independent NVC Trainer, Portland, OR
“Vika Miller is one of the most gifted, personally authentic people I’ve ever met.
Perhaps because she has done her own inner work at the deepest levels,
she has a rare, astonishing knack for sharing advanced spiritual and psycho-neurological information
in easily understandable, practical, and deeply empowering stories, characters, tools, and practices.
She listens from a very deep and present level. I recommend her at the highest levels as teacher, coach, or mentor.“
— Jeffry Jeanetta-Wark, MA., LICSW, Holistic Psychotherapist,
Center for Integrated Well-Being, Minneapolis, MN
If you’re facing challenges in your life or relationships and wondering where to turn for down-to-earth support that actually works, and you’re devoted to doing your part to create what you’re longing for …
I’m here to help you on your journey.
If you’re seeking to:
- Gain lasting freedom from persistent, life-disrupting anxiety or overwhelm that disempowers you
- Get relief from the exhaustion and frustration of working so hard all the time but never getting what you want most
- Discover the hidden cause behind crazy, dysfunctional behavior, that instantly restores your access to sanity, compassion, confidence, and power in service of your most deeply held values
- Stop pursuing and finally “catch” the happiness, satisfaction, joy, and wonder of fulfilling on your most cherished visions
- At last be free to make the contribution in life that you were born to make (because what you need to learn in order to solve the challenges you face, is the same thing you need to learn in order to help save the world.)
- Get fast, profoundly effective results
… you’re in the right place.
Mentorship offers:
- a deeply safe, honoring relational space
- (r)evolutionary, proven-effective distinctions, processes, practices, and tools
- emotional and relational literacy, including transparency, warmth, and playfulness, as well as impeccable personal dignity, accountability, and attuned, effective repair
- powerfully life-serving wisdom
Mentorship will transform your experience of the most persistent, disruptive challenges you’re facing into clarity, stability, unleashed authentic power, and wildly abundant well-being.
Because the faerie-tale world of Heaven on Earth that you envision and have devoted your life to is real, and it’s available. (I know, because I and the members of our community are living in it, in all its down-to-earth, imperfect perfection.)
But, let me be frank. There’s a price to pay: you must go on the Hero’s Journey, and be willing to do the inner work to:
- Come into Right Relationship with your power … and your powerlessness
- Understand and come into Right Relationship with your Fear, Failure, Pain, Shame … and Fulfillment
- Learn how to clearly See and build Shared Reality — including making an appropriate “place at the table” for your own and others’ Personal Reality
When you build your capacity to effectively practice these and other key Thriving Life skills, you will be free to real-ize the vision you have for yourself, your life, and your relationships.
All Mentorship Meetings offer a deeply safe, attuned space where your personal reality — your own perspectives, experience, beliefs, truths, and life-needs — will be heard and honored.
Personal Mentorship provides time devoted entirely to you, that allows us to gently illuminate, honor, and transform old beliefs and protective coping strategies, so that your “survival” and “thriving” brains stop battling each other — and others — in ways that seriously drain your energy and block your effectiveness.
Relationship Mentoring offers your relationship the fullest access to all the (r)evolutionary distinctions, practices, and power of Personal Coaching, plus the accelerated, luminous transformation that becomes possible when all parties do this work simultaneously.
I guide romantic partners, parents and adult children, adult siblings, business partners, neighbors, community members, and friends in acknowledging and resolving the old injuries, persistent complaints, broken trust, or deep hurt that damage not only our healthy relationship with others, but also our own health and well-being.
Whether you’re seeking Personal or Relationship Mentorship, let’s begin with an initial Mentorship Meeting. This allows me to hear, understand, and honor your very real, very important personal reality, and begin to discern the underlying source of the particular difficulties you’re facing. This provides the safest, most effective foundation for our first Personal or Relationship Mentorship Session together.
I offer a lifetime of grounded presence and humility from my own deep human journey as well as 40 years of experience providing illuminating, easy-to-apply guidance that produces rapid, deeply transformational results to therapists, coaches, ministers, small business owners, C-suite executives, high-performing professionals, romantic partners, parents and adult children, intentional communities, persons living in maximum security prisons, and more.
If you’re ready to make your greatest visions a reality …
the first step is to Start Here and get a taste of what’s truly possible.
Then if you feel inspired to explore what path or resources could best support you, I invite you to schedule a Mentorship Meeting with me.
Because it’s your birthright to thrive.
And I’m here to help you get there.
Warmly,
